There are things that give me life. Namely Reading & Teaching. These get me in my zone of genius. They are my Happy Place. What is yours?

Retreat vs. Vacation. There is a big difference. One is about doing the thing that is fun to you. The other is about your self development.

Do you celebrate the good things that are in your life? Are you in the habit of expressing gratitude for your wins? Start today

Siko What? How can you be a sickler, you are fat? Let's talk about dis thing that is called sickle cell.

#ZambianExcellence is all around us it's just that we are all focused on the wrong people. Be honest our nation loves a good gossip

Does failing make you uncomfortable? Yes it's sad. Actually painful to fail and yet it gives you so much data.

Reflection on how my #30DayWriting challenge is going so far. Currently on Day 6.

I do not like confrontations. I avoid them like the plague and yet there is an art to it. A way of speaking to each other respectfully.

Who tells the best stories? South Africa, Nollywood, Korean Dramas, or maybe another country.I am deep in exploring the art of story telling

Listen I watched Blood Sisters, Savage Beauty and read Hlomu: the Wife all back to back. Sis I have a Problem. I am sleep deprived. Help

When you get into business and reality hits you. It's not that you want to quit, you just wish someone, anyone told you, "This will happen"

What do you say you are? I say am a writer but I am not actually writing. That has to change immediately. I am a writer, so I write.

We all have terrorists to our bank accounts. Be it relatives or even our employers. It's time to stop negotiating with them.

Sex. The topic that we are all told to keep hush and yet it affects everyone. I am not comfortable talking about it but someone needs this.

Happy Valentine's Queen. Single/Coupled you are all phenomenal. Manje some of us have sworn to spinsterhood because of the Sons of Pharaoh

This is a continuation of my misadventures of moving to a new town and how I am adjusting. I talk about living alone, projects and workers.

New Year, New Me. Is that you? It sure is me. Talk about change: moved house, moved, towns, moved professions. I told you new me. Learn more

It was my birthday. Yes. I am 37 and loving it. This year has been interesting. Read more on my debt update and what I learned.

For the next few weeks the blog is going to take a different turn. I feel compelled to write a story. Please flow with me.

What do you do when you are paralysed by fear? When your brain is telling you that the thing you fear is a Goliath.